By McArthur Krishna

The Gospel Doctrine Lesson #39 manual objective is “To help class members understand that the process of ‘perfecting … the saints’ (Ephesians 4:12) requires us to increase our faith in Christ, follow the teachings of the apostles and prophets, and protect ourselves from the wickedness of the world.”

Our Objective

To examine what it means to have no strangers in the household of God.


I have always loved Ephesians 2:19, which says:

Now therefore ye are no more strangers and foreigners, but fellow citizens with the saints, and of the household of God;

This verse felt especially important as I went to church after I moved to India. I was sitting in church the first week and I was so grateful to be there. I live 400 miles from church and so I am only able to go once a month. To get there and hear hymns coming from the open door just gave my soul peace.

I had been to many LDS churches around the world as I traveled. It was always an adventure trying to find the building. But this time I had MOVED… this was to be my home… and it just didn’t feel like it. I looked around and thought, “These are my people?” Well, yes and no.

No, I am not Indian. No, I do not live in Delhi. No, I have very different life experiences than everyone in there. And then I remembered this verse: no more strangers and foreigners. And a quote by Gandalf I have always loved, “I am a stranger no where unless I choose to be.”

And so, YES, these are my people. These are fellow saints. And, more importantly, children of God just like me.

One of my most profound experiences with this concept was actually in my very own hometown. I was living at my parents’ house recuperating from having a baby while they were on their mission. It was the first few weeks after giving birth and not only was I not sleeping enough (like everyone says), I had also woken up sick. I literally thought, “How am I going to do this?” But, a sister from my ward whom I had grown up with but not spent any significant time with in twenty years showed up on my doorstep. She held my baby for two hours so I could sleep, she did my dishes, she brought a bag of helpful items for a newborn. She saved me… a relative stranger.

Were we anything alike? Not on the surface. She had eight children and had started young. I had one and started at forty-one. She lived in our hometown; I lived abroad. She had dozens of relatives in the area; I had none. I had worked outside of the home; she had mostly worked inside. (Though raising eight kids takes a fair amount of work both inside and outside a home!)

And, still, we sat on the couch and caught up. We made each other laugh and kept saying, “exactly! exactly!” as the other relayed a life perspective. We were not strangers, but just two members of God’s household.

May we each find a way to welcome another soul.. whether in our congregation or our neighborhood, let’s find a way to help everyone remember we are all part of God’s family.

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