By Rosemary Demos

Gospel Doctrine Lesson #11 discusses the parables taught by Jesus in Matthew 13. The objective as stated in the manual is “to help class members develop ‘ears to hear’ so they can understand how Jesus’ parables apply to them.”


To comment on the special communicative power of parables, both scriptural and personal.


The short parables of Matthew 13 are vivid vignettes, delicious in their real-life imagery: a priceless pearl, yeast in a loaf of bread, a fishing net cast wide. These images emerge out of all walks of life (wealthy merchants, homemakers, fishermen . . .). And if we can find ourselves in the stories, then their purpose is fulfilled: they have planted themselves in our hearts, and that stretch of imagination expands our understanding of God.

As I read this lesson, I remembered images that have come to my mind in times of difficulty or confusion, clarifying a hard-to-grasp reality that could only be understood in a spiritual language uniquely suited for me. These mental images have stuck with me. They have become reference points, personal parables that articulate my relationship with God and my place in his kingdom.

I remember the vivid personal parables that came to me on my mission, when I learned to see my struggles as a spiritual journey. Sometimes, during particularly discouraging experiences, I would imagine a little me in my mind’s-eye responding to the overwhelming difficulties. I would picture myself falling down flat on the ground in exhaustion while my real (bodily) self was setting goals, riding my bicycle, and talking to strangers in a foreign language.

But at those times other images would come to mind as comfort and encouragement. In the early mission days when I was working so hard on learning Italian, I would picture in metaphor the sheer mental effort. It translated best into a physical reality: God’s kingdom is a huge and muddy mountain. I climb and climb, forced to use both hands and feet, dirt everywhere, slipping down and falling on knees and elbows. But at the top, isn’t it glorious!

Later, in those days when I was learning how to take on more responsibilities and present myself as a leader, I would have a clear recurring image of the Statue of Liberty rising up from the New York Harbor: The worker in God’s kingdom is a tall statue on the shore of a new world, with girders of steel welded together on her insides, and riveted copper on the outside to last through decades of weather and wear. She is fearless in facing the world and in sharing God’s light. Every prayer was another girder in that inner structure that was building up inside me. Every day survived was another plate of copper in my armor.

And then toward the end of my mission, after a particularly discouraging bout of sickness, my companion and I stood in the blustery cold on a Mediterranean piazza, trying unsuccessfully to find people interested in the gospel. I’ll never forget the vivid image that came to my mind’s eye as we stood there with our skirts blowing. Again, in parable-speak: The kingdom of God is a powerful wind, which carries us to a place of safety and strength when our own strength and courage fail us. That parable of grace, after the lying down flat, the climbing through mud, the girdered lady, is the most precious — and the most true.

As Paul says, “we see through a glass darkly” (1 Cor. 13:12). The infinite divinity of our potential selves, the magnificence of the kingdom of God are things that can’t always be translated for us into neat and dry logical sentences. Christ’s parables, through their vividly imagined images, speak to the real world and to our lives as we live them. He will continue to speak to us in a language that we understand, sending His Spirit to illuminate our understanding of our place in His kingdom. Ours is the task to seek that understanding however it comes. Like the disciples, we ask Christ to “declare unto us” (Matt 13:36). the meaning of our lives and His kingdom.

What are your own personal parables?

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A Living Network, Chieko N. Okazaki

This is a net, a fisherman’s net that my father, Kanenori Nishimura, made in Hawaii many years ago. It has been mine since he died thirty years ago, and I have cherished it for his sake. For me, that moment of casting the net is a supremely beautiful one. I loved seeing my father standing on a rocky point on the beach, the net close-gathered in his hands, then with strong, graceful gesture, like a dancer, flinging the net up and out. It would unfold in flight, opening like a fan or an umbrella, then fall over the fish that were darting like silver arrows through the surf. The lead sinkers around the edge of the net would make it sink gently to the bottom, completely enclosing the fish.

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